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150+ Top Date Ideas & Romantic Things to Do in San Antonio for Couples

Are you trying to come up with first date ideas in San Antonio. But you aren’t quite sure what to do? There are so many romantic things to do for couples that the hardest thing about this task is deciding what to do next! Save this for the next time you need a San Antonio date idea. Whether you’re looking for something romantic, free, fun, active, or food oriented. And even though many of these articles are based around activities for couples, in general, these ideas are great for people just looking for new date ideas in San Antonio!

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Romantic Things To Do in San Antonio for Couples

Love will definitely be in the air with these romantic things to do in San Antonio for couples!

Grab Drinks in the Sky 

The Tower of Americas offers views of downtown San Antonio from the Observation Desk and is the perfect place to grab a top tier. Romantic dinner at Chop House or drinks at Bar 601.

Visit the San Antonio Botanical Garden

Wander hand-in-hand and walk through all of the flowers and blooms for a romantic date night at the San Antonio Botanical Garden.

Enjoy Drinks at Jazz TX 

Listen to the smooth sounds of jazz music as you sip cocktails and enjoy good conversation with your partner. Jazz TX has two performances a night, Tuesday through Thursday at 5:30 p.m., with no cover.

Go on a Wine Tour

San Antonio is close to the Texas Hill Country! Home to hundreds of vineyards and wineries. Cottonwood Wine Tours offers several different wine tours for every budget and availability. Travel into the Hill Country to wineries in towns like Boerne and Fredericksburg, enjoy wine tastings, and wander through vineyards.

Or visit up to 20 different wineries aboard the 290 Wine Shuttle, which travels along the infamous 290 Wine Trail and arrives every 15 minutes to take you to the next stop. Tickets are just $39.99 a person!

Get a Couples Massage 

Enjoy a romantic couples massage with Texas ingredients like beeswax, honey, and lavender while enjoying some of the best views. Loma de Vide Spa offers couples massages in its sky loft and beautiful grotto.

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Relax in a Salt Cave 

Enjoy all of the relaxing and healing properties while laying back in the salt caves at Eforea Spa.

Make a Bouquet 

Rather than just getting her flowers, head over to the Vintage Bouquet Bar in the Pearl District, where they have flowers you can arrange yourself to create a one-of-a-kind, thoughtful bouquet.

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Go for a Wine Tasting 

Stray Grape offers 50 different wines to try. Or, if you want to be extra romantic on your next San Antonio date, work with them to create your own wine and label that you can enjoy over time.

Wander Through the Vineyards

Or drive to North San Antonio and visit Lara Vineyards. Wander through the vineyard together and try varietals like Cabernet Sauvignon and unique wines like hibiscus wine.

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Listen to the Symphony 

Or drive to North San Antonio and visit Lara Vineyards. Wander through the vineyard together and try varietals like Cabernet Sauvignon and unique wines like hibiscus wine.

Go on a Helicopter Tour

See San Antonio up high with your partner, including views of iconic buildings like the Alamo with Alamo Helicopter Tours.

Take a Couples Massage Class

A massage only happens once, but with a couple’s massage class at the Love Institute, you can learn a skill that will last a lifetime. Just be prepared for your partner to expect massages regularly!

Go on a Romantic Picnic

Picnic Envy does a variety of romantic picnic set-ups, including backyard movies and candlelight picnics!

Take a Day or Weekend Trip

There are so many little cities nearby in the Texas Hill Country! Go on a day trip to the French town of Castroville, the German town of New BraunfelsSeguin, and so many others!

Turn it into a Vacation/Staycation

Why does a San Antonio date night have to last just one night? Turn a date night into an entire weekend. Stay in a beautiful hotel, like Hotel Emma in the Pearl District, and spend a couple of days together checking out all of the romantic things to do in San Antonio.

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Play Mini Golf

With places like Monster Mini Golf. You can add a little bit of competition to your San Antonio date night and have the winner buy drinks after.

Catch a Show at the Majestic Theatre

Originally built in 1929. The Majestic Theatre will enchant you with its classic beauty. Here, you can catch top Broadway shows, comedy shows, ballets, and other incredible shows.

Visit a Speakeasy 

Enjoy a drink prohibition style at one of the many speakeasy bars in San Antonio.

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Fun Nights at the Alamo Drafthouse

More than just a regular theater, Alamo Drafthouse has special events where they invite you to sing along, react out loud, and engage with the movie. No worries about getting hushed here.

Visit the Pearl Farmers Market 

The weekend farmers market at the Pearl is huge! It’s so much fun to try all the different goods from local vendors, sample some new items, and see all the cute dogs walking around. End your date by exploring the local stores and grabbing a bite to eat one of their

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Go Two-Stepping

Grab your cowboy boots and put on your cowboy hat for a night of dancing. With a live band and dance lessons for those who don’t know how, Cowboys Dance Hall is always a good time. Not far from San Antonio in Helotes TX is Floore’s, a Texas Honky Tonk and dance hall staple with a restaurant and live musical performances.

Catch a Basketball Game

The blood of San Antonians runs silver and black and going to watch a Spurs or Silver Stars game is a must in your date night ideas San Antonio list!

Adult Nights at the Doseum 

The Doseum isn’t just for kids. At Redo Nights you can unleash your inner child, but with drinks involved.

Volunteer at the Humane Society

The Humane Society is always looking for dog and cat socializers. Spend time together loving on cats and dogs for a fun date idea.

Check out the Vintage Shops 

Set up a budget, pick a theme, and see who can put together the best outfit. Even take it out for a date! Thrift Town has one of the largest selections or hop around to other local spots like Montage.

Go Racing at K1 Speed

K1 Speed has the fastest indoor electric go karts in Texas that go as fast as 45 mph. Gone are the days when you had to strategically choose the go-kart that was fastest and win on sheer luck.

Play Arcade Games

Grab a drink and play old arcade games together at Slackers. They have giant Jenga, pool, air hockey, and other classic arcade games.

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Sing Horribly Together

Unless you sing well. Then that’s cool. The people at Dad’s Karaoke really get into the karaoke and are a fun group! Other local bars that host weekly karaoke nights are:

  • Thirsty Horse Saloon: live band karaoke, Fridays & Sundays
  • Hi-Tones: Mondays
  • The Bang Bang Bar: Sundays
  • The Amp Room: Thursdays

Visit the San Antonio Zoo

The San Antonio Zoo has so much going on if you just want to visit. Including feeding hippos, giraffes, and tortoises; going behind the scenes, and having butterflies fly all around you! They also have some extra romantic date ideas, like a romantic dinner in front of the hippos on Valentine’s Day.

Tackle an Escape Room

This is a San Antonio date night that could make or break a relationship. How well do you two react under pressure? Solve puzzles to escape the room or save the world. Each escape room has a different theme, such as James Bond themed rooms, raiding the tombs, and more. Check out Extreme Escapes and the Texas Panic Room for some great themes.

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Go Indoor Skydiving

Maybe skydiving isn’t for you but get the thrill at iFly as you do back flips in the air and experience flying inside a small chamber.

Ride Roller Coasters

They say when your heart is racing from excitement. You’ll associate those feelings with the person you’re with. Making Six Flags a great first date, or just one of the cute date ideas San Antonio in general.

Feed Stingrays

Swim with the stingrays and ride a boat under an aquarium at Aquatica!

Or Other Exotic Animals

Natural Bridge Wildlife Ranch is a drive-thru safari experience where you’ll be able to feed and take photos of exotic animals like Emus, Cheetahs, Lemurs, Rhinos, and more! They also have guided tours and additional excursions like the Aviary Experience, where you can hand feed beautiful birds, the Pre-Historic Experience with realistic, animatronic dinosaurs, or a VIP Giraffe Experience.

Go on a Sightseeing Bus Tour

Playing tourist in your own city can be a fun way to bond with your partner! You might learn new things that you never knew about the city in a double-decker sightseeing bus tour.

Practice Your Golf Skills 

At Top Golf, hang out in a private booth and hit a bunch of golf balls while eating good food and drinking cocktails. No need to chase golf balls around the course.

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Go on a Ghost Tour 

If you like a little thrill, combine a pub crawl with a ghost tour. Learn about San Antonio’s haunted bars and historic buildings while enjoying drink specials at different bars with Bad Wolf Ghost Tours or Nightly Spirits.

Sisters Grimm Ghost Tours offers walking tours and a ghost bus tour. You can use Alamo City Ghost Tours provided ghost hunting equipment and hunt for ghosts while learning all about San Antonio’s history.

RJA Ghost Tours offers nightly walking tours led by Certified Paranormal Investigators. You won’t just learn about San Antonio’s history. But also it’s folklore, and you’ll leave with some new knowledge about manifestations and hauntings.

Ghost City Tours offers an adults-only experience and sprinkle in a little of the occult, demons, and more into this haunted walking tour.

San Antonio Segway Tours also offers a ghost tour on board one of their Segways, meaning you can travel further, faster, and see more of one of the most haunted cities in America.

Pretend You’re Spanish Royalty

At the Spanish Governer’s Palace! Built in the 1700s, walking through this incredible palace is like walking through history with its beautiful Spanish architecture and design.

Meet Your Favorite Celebrities

Or at least see their wax replicas at Madame Tussauds Wax Museum. Go through the Wax Museum and take realistic photos to trick your friends.

Become a Texas Ranger

Or at least go on a guide with a ranger at the Buckhorn Saloon and Texas Ranger Museum. You’ll feel like you’re in the Wild West. Plus, grab a drink at the saloon.

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Go Bowling

Bowling has really gotten an upgrade! Places like Bowlero and Pinstack have cool arcade games, gourmet dining, and tasty drinks rather than a questionable cheeseburger.

Bowl & Barrel is a more up-scale bowling alley with a tavern and a beer hall. After 7 pm, only visitors 18+ are allowed unless accompanied by an adult.

Catch an Event at the Guadalupe Cultural Arts Center

There’s always a unique event going on. Including weekly performances, music festivals, dances, and the free Galeria Guadalupe.

Explore the McNay Art Museum

Just wandering through the grounds of the McNay Art Museum makes for a great date. But they also regularly add new exhibits.

Visit the Institute of Texan Cultures

A Smithsonian Affiliate, this San Antonio museum shares the global culture of those who call Texas home. They have exhibits and events throughout the year.

Catch an Event at La Villita

Even when there is not an event. La Villita is a beautiful space to walk around right off the San Antonio Riverwalk, with cool buildings and historic architecture. And when they do have an event, they’re definitely worth attending!

See the Stars

At the Scobee Planetarium you can pretend you’ve gone on a romantic trip to Greenland and watch aurora borealis overhead.

Take a trip out to Fredericksburg and visit Enchanted Rock State Natural Area. The area is known for its dark skies, making it an ideal location for stargazing. Bring a blanket or camping chairs and schedule your visit for a clear night so you can best enjoy the starry sky. Bring a star chart or a stargazing app to help you recognize constellations and start discussions about how big the universe is. Perhaps stay the night and explore Fredericksburg and all of its things to do.

Hang Out at the Pool

You don’t need to check into a hotel to enjoy the resort pools or spas. Buy a Resort Pass for the day and gain access to the luxurious resort pools and even spas at hotels like the JW Marriott, Hyatt Regency, or La Cantera.

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Take Her/Him Out to a Ball Game

Turns out America’s past time makes for a great San Antonio date. Grab some hot dogs and sodas and cheer on the San Antonio Missions!

Get Pedis

There’s nothing like pampering your feet when you spend time on them all day, every day.

Visit the San Antonio Fire Museum

Honor the people who keep this city safe and learn about firefighters. Then head over to Battalion, a restaurant inside of an old fire station.

Explore the Art of the West

The Briscoe Western Art Museum showcases all of the art and history of the West. Get into deep conversations and learn something new together.

Go for a Swim 

The San Pedro Springs Park is the perfect place for a summer date with beautiful nature and springs. Be sure to check out some of the cool pools in San Antonio.

Watch a Hockey Game

Even if you’re not a big hockey fan. You can easily get into the excitement of a hockey game with the San Antonio Rampage.

Take a River Taxi

Traveling from place to place by boat isn’t something that just happens in Europe! The Go Rio Cruises has a river taxi that will take you all over San Antonio’s Art District. Choose from options like their narrated tours or a private river cruise for your next event! Go Rio Cruises also has a beverage bar and kayak/paddleboard rentals along the San Antonio River!

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Listen to Live Music

And swing on the funky chair swings at the Rustic. They have artists every weekend and most of the concerts are even free! You can grab a drink at the bar or order off their delicious menu.

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Snap a Pic

There’s always a new pop-up art museum experience opening up with bright rooms and cool concepts that make for cute couple’s pictures. Make sure to check out what’s in your area at the time!

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Get Lost in the Corn Maze

In the fall, the Graff 7A Ranch creates a masterpiece of a themed corn maze for people to wander through. To make this fu fall date even better, they have other activities including flower picking and campfire s’mores.

Pick Tulips

This fun San Antonio date is only available in the spring, but it’s guaranteed to leave you with plenty memories. After wandering through the tulips at Texas Tulips, pick some to take home to remember your date!

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Other Best Date Ideas & Romantic Things To Do In San Antonio For Couples

Best Date Ideas: Free things to do in San Antonio For Couples

No need to spend a lot of money, or any money, to have an unforgettable time with your loved one on your upcoming San Antonio romantic getaway! Instead, all it takes is to be a little creative to make your time together a memorable one! San Antonio offers a  an abundance of fantastic free date ideas for couples looking for a budget friendly romantic escape. You can take advantage of the free admission days of different Museums or take a walk through bustling farmers market where of course you can enter for free. Take a leisurely stroll along the picturesque San Antonio Riverwalk, immerse yourself in the history of the San Antonio Missions, or wander through the vibrant Historic Market Square hand in hand. Whether you’re new in town or looking to reignite the spark, these activities are sure to create lasting memories without costing a penny. For even more inspiration, our curated list of Best Free Date Ideas in San Antonio for Couples is totally worth checking out.

Best Date Ideas: Fun things to do in San Antonio For Couples

Why settle for a classic dinner date idea when you can venture out together and explore all that San Antonio has to offer? This city has lots and lots of exciting activities for couples, perfect for creating unforgettable memories together! But with so much going on and so little time, it’s challenging to narrow down the most adventurous and fun activities in the city. You can wander through the lush San Antonio Botanical Garden, enjoy fresh local produce and crafts at the Pearl Farmers Market, and share some laughs at the Laugh Out Loud Comedy Club. Keep the laughter flowing and the energy high with these Fun San Antonio Date Ideas list that are sure to impress.

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Best Date Ideas: Active things to do in San Antonio For Couples

They say dating causes couples to gain a few pounds. Rather than just sitting around and eating, why not stay healthy, sweat together, and have some workout while having quality time together? San Antonio has plenty of exciting activities that keeps you moving, having a friendly competition together and sharing laughters together! You can enjoy a scenic horseback ride at Westcreek Trail Rides, challenge yourself with rock climbing at Armadillo Boulders, or glide across the ice at Rotary Ice Rink in Travis Park. If you are inspired to try some dating ideas with physical activity, these Active Date Ideas in San Antonio for Couples are the right place to start.

Best Date Ideas: Unique things to do in San Antonio For Couples

When in San Antonio, most couples are drawn to classic date spots—a romantic stroll along the iconic Riverwalk or losing themselves amidst the world’s most beautiful San Antonio Botanical Garden flora. These places are swoon-worthy, but San Antonio has so much more to offer couples looking for something out of the ordinary. Exploring historic Spanish missions on a bike can be fun and enriching for those who crave adventure. Feeling quirky? How about a visit to the San Antonio Museum of Art, where you can challenge each other to find the most intriguing piece of art? Let’s dive into the hidden heart of San Antonio and discover some of the unique experiences for couples that make this city perfect to share with someone you love.

Best Date Ideas: Foodie things to do in San Antonio For Couples

Texas is full of big cities, but San Antonio, without second-guessing, is the go-to destination for dating couples, especially for foodies. San Antonio’s culinary game is unmatched with the country’s premier BBQ steak houses, Tex-Mex, the most delicious German food, and, of course, the best wine bars. Whether planning an intimate dinner date or celebrating a special anniversary, San Antonio promises an upscale dining experience that will make your foodie heart skip a beat. Join me as I share my favorite foodie date ideas in San Antonio, guaranteed to impress your significant other and satisfy your taste buds.

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San Antonio Date Ideas for Couples: Final Thoughts

With its unique blend of culture, history, and fun activities, San Antonio is the perfect backdrop for creating unforgettable memories together. Whether you’re exploring the scenic Riverwalk, delving into history at the Missions, enjoying fresh finds at the Pearl Farmers Market, or seeking adventure with horseback riding and rock climbing, you and your partner will definitely find a lot to make the most of your romantic getaway. So, how many of these San Antonio date ideas have you tried? Is there anything we missed that needs to be added to the list? Share in the comments!

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Last Updated 1 month ago by Jessica Serna | Published: July 29, 2023